Bernie Kosar was drafted by the Cleveland Browns at age 21 and handed a multimillion-dollar contract, and as one of the highest-paid quarterbacks in the NFL in the 1980s and 1990s, he earned a fortune that should have lasted him several lifetimes. He also had a wife and four daughters, and a reputation as a family man.
But now he’s bankrupt and in the midst of a nasty divorce.
So what happened? Kosar says it’s really quite simple: He thought he was smart when he was in his 20s, and it’s only now, in his 40s, that he realizes he’s an idiot. Kosar tells Dan Le Batard of The Miami Herald: “I was 25 and everyone was telling me that I was the smartest; now I’m 45 and realize I’m an idiot,” he says. “I’m 45 and immature. I don’t like being 45.”As crazy as it sounds now, Kosar was once viewed as a huge success story in the business world, and as the model for how an athlete should invest his salary. He owned restaurants and bought and sold real estate, and that’s why, in his 20s, everyone told him how smart he was.
But much of Kosar’s money was tied up in the Florida real estate market that has now gone bust, and Kosar recently filed for bankruptcy and put his 9,900-square foot Florida mansion up for sale.
Former NFL quarterback Bernie Kosar recently filed for bankruptcy protection in Miami. Kosar’s Chapter 11 filing lists liabilities of between $10 million and $50 million.
Kosar says that he could always hire people to do things for him, or have his wife and four daughters do household chores, so he never learned the most basic of tasks, like doing his own laundry or running his dishwasher. Now his wife has left him in a divorce that cost him, he said, between $4 million and $5 million in legal fees.
Although it obviously took Kosar a couple of decades too long to come to the realization that he had a lot to learn, I think it’s refreshing that Kosar can admit his shortcomings and try to move on. Kosar may never again live the luxurious life he had in the 1990s, but he promises that he’s not finished, saying his approach to life will be like his approach to football: “I’m going to come out of this fine. I always get up.”
OTHER NOTABLE STAR ATHLETES – HARD LIFE LESSONS
Former Phillies and Mets star Lenny Dykstra said earlier this month that he’s more than $31 million in debt.
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Mets legend Jerry Koosman could face up to one year in prison after pleading guilty to federal tax evasion. Koosman defrauded the government out of as much as $90,000, assistant U.S. attorney John Vaudreuil said. Sentencing is set for July 21.
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Michael Vick, once the NFL’s highest-paid player, is finishing a nearly two-year sentence under house arrest for dogfighting charges. He agreed to pay the Atlanta Falcons $6.5 million as part of his bankruptcy case, clearing the way for the team to release him.
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Tennis legend John McEnroe was one of the many victims duped in a sophisticated $88 million art investment scam. McEnroe reportedly lost $2 million after investing a half share in two paintings, Arshile Gorky’s “Pirate I and II.”
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NFL running back Deuce McAllister allegedly owed Nissan more than $6.6 million in a dispute over his car dealership. In March, Nissan Motor Acceptance Corporation filed suit against McAllister’s dealership, and federal marshals reportedly targeted its inventory.
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New York Yankees’ Johnny Damon and Xavier Nady were among the investors whose finances were previously frozen because of money they had with a company affiliated with Robert Allen Stanford.
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In January, ex-slugger Jose Canseco battled against Danny Bonaduce in a boxing match because he’s strapped for cash and claims to have squandered nearly $45 million. Canseco also tried his hand at mixed martial arts in May, but lost his debut in embarrassing fashion to giant Korean fighter Hong Man Choi.
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According to a Chicago Sun-Times report, Knicks center Eddy Curry was sued by Casual Male Retail Group in December 2008 for $41,000 in unpaid clothing bills.
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In May, former Oakland Athletics first baseman Troy Neel pleaded guilty to charges that he fled to a tiny South Pacific island to avoid paying about $725,000 in child support for his kids in Texas. Neel now faces as much as two years in federal prison and a $250,000 fine.
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Lots of lessons tied into this one article. Perhaps the most profound for me is that we are entitled to nothing. Our fame will end, our money can run out, but our character and relationships essentially mold who we are and the success we have after sport. Regardless of success within sport it is so important that we humble ourselves and recognize the importance of life preparation. Bernie Kosar is not the only victim of bad company and poor decision making, but his candid quote is one to be respected “I was 25 and everyone was telling me that I was the smartest; now I’m 45 and realize I’m an idiot,” he says. “I’m 45 and immature. I don’t like being 45.”
Prepare now! Learn from the mistakes of others and let keen observation help guide you with decisions.
I graduated from High School with Bernie Kosar – he is a friend of mine – sounds exactly like something Bernie would say – he was always funny and had some great one liners – he will will bounce back you can count on that!
Dom,
Depending on how well you know Bernie I would enjoy meeting him at some point. h Leadership is founded on education, inspiration and real life circumstances. His story is a very powerful one and he can positively influence so many people. Thanks for the response.
h